One of my favorite recurring pieces in the NYT is 'Really?' in the Health section where they prove or disprove health claims.
A recent one discussed whether the claim that kids gained weight over the summer was true or not. Spoiler alert: it is.
And I'm not surprised.
My family and I just came back from a week and a half of summer vacation (context for this post and also my excuse for being absent since June!) Now this wasn't the lying-around-all-day-drinking-pina-coladas-by-the-pool-trying-everything-there-is-on-the-menu-just-because kind of vacation. No, this was me, my husband, my mother and my sisters in charge of six cousins ranging from three months old to seven years old. This was a "Momma can we play baseball, can we go golfing, can we walk on the beach for hours and hours and collect sea glass, can we can we can we?" kind of vacation. And the answer to all of those questions (if preceded by a please) was always (well, most of the time) "yes!" My kids didn't gain weight, but I did. How?
I had something in common with those kiddos who gain weight over the summer, and that is that I had completely slipped from any sort of routine. Getting up at 6am and exercising just seemed very unvacationlike. And if the kids get up before exercise happens, the chance of it happening are slim to none. And why not have an extra cup of coffee since we're all hanging out in the kitchen for an extra half hour? And Coley hasn't finished his French toast (on organic whole wheat using pastured eggs, 100% grass-fed milk and real maple syrup, of course!) and I'm on clean up duty so I might as well finish it rather than waste it. And making a salad for myself when we have just a two-hour window to hit the pool between thunderstorm threats seems selfish, so I'll just grab a hot dog off the grill like everyone else. And it's 6pm and the kids are playing out on the sun-soaked deck. Anyone care to share a beer?
Does this sound familiar? (If not, I've just stuck my foot in my health coaching mouth!)
Routine keeps adults in check just in the way it keeps kids in check. The reason my kids and their cousins didn't gain any weight and I did was because rather than disrupting their routine, they just added more gas to it - running, jumping, playing, constantly on the go - whereas I wasn't as diligent as I typically am about ensuring greens with every meal, keeping it to good carbs and saying no thank you to ice cream. No food stood a chance in these kids' bodies as active as they were. And actually, getting them to sit to eat anything more than a bite before they were off on their next adventure was next to impossible. Conversely, the kiddos who gain weight over the summer are those who've been taken away from school and sports routines and embraced a more sedentary lifestyle, either because they enjoy ten hours a day of video games or because based on their circumstances, they have no other choice.
Unlike for the kids in
the study, the few pounds I gained were worth it. They'll go away naturally soon enough as I dive back into my routine. And they're worth their weight (pun intended) in mental health. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said for a majority of our nation's children, and the results of this study could lead to a lot of goodness if responded to in a meaningful way. Regardless, a refreshing twist here is the suggestion that school, typically called out as the demon that establishes and promotes bad habits, can really help keep kids' health in check.
With school menus getting cleaner and greener, and school vending machines being kicked to the curb, fingers will have to be pointed elsewhere: routines and habits formed at home travel far...